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Life coach.... How do I know that I need one?

Life Coach is much like a sports coach. A sports coach has the job of coaching a team to perform to their full potential. I see my job as helping you to access the resources within yourself to create the behaviour that will result in life that you want for yourself.

Let me answer this question by first stating that you already have within you what you need to create the life you want. If you dont believe this or you cannot see it, then I would suggest that its time to get some outside help. If you do believe that you already have what it takes, but you dont have the results you want, even though you have applied yourself and tried to change your thinking and behaviour to support the results you desire, then a good life coach will be of great help to you.

If any of the statements listed below describe you, then my private life coaching program, THE ULTIMATE PERSONAL BREAKTHROUGH, is a definite solution for you.

  • My life is not what I would want it to be...
  • I have a phobia...
  • I have emotional issues...
  • I have no control over my emotions
  • I am an angry person
  • I have low self esteem...
  • I make self limiting decisions...
  • I have limiting beliefs
  • I cant move forward because of my past...
  • I want to do better at my job
  • I am stuck
  • I dont know how to love....
  • I cant make decisions
  • I cant stop feeling guilty...
  • I never have enough money / I want more money...
  • Other people are always hurting / destroying me...
  • I keep making the same mistakes
  • My relationships never work out...
  • I am unhappy even though things are seemingly fine when I think about it
  • I have too much stress

As your life coach I will teach you how to understand and take control of your inner world. Don't ask me how they measure this, but I am told that 97% of our behaviour occurs without us consciously thinking about it. That means that we only consciously consider 3% of our behaviour. That explains why, inspite of all our effort, we dont always get the results we want.

My Life Coaching program is about gaining control of that 93% of your behaiour that currently runs on autopilot. I know that it is possible for you to take control of your life. What you do right now is determining the results in your life anyway, even if you dont feel in control. Why not learn how to consciously take control, so that you can get the results that you want instead?

Below is very simplified model of how we create results in our lives. Our actions produce our results. Our thinking causes our actions and our conditioned minds are responsible for our thinking. You're most likely reading this page because you have tried to change your actions and your thinking and you are not succeeding yet. Lasting change occurs in the conditioned mind. What goes on in your conditioned mind determines what you get to think about. That is why changing your thinking and actions without engaging the conditioned mind is very difficult and often a long and painful process. You will engage with your conditioned mind, probably for the first time in your life, during my life coaching program.

 

 

definition of insanity

Dear Peter

Before my Life Coaching session, I was tired, I was emotionally drained with no zest for life. I was merely going through the motions at work, no focus & my competitive edge was barely existent! My family life felt like it was closing in on me & I felt constricted. In the space of 1year, I had lost my mother & also just had a car accident, situations were not helping at all. As a rep, I’m out on the road most of the day, meeting people and driving, which had become another nightmare, the mere thought of driving, made me anxious & gave me heart palpitations.

Peter you have not only given me an enormous amount of energy, you have helped me realize, that through looking at small situations differently & realizing your role in it & simply changing it, none of the former stresses I had was actually relevant in my life. I have a renewed sense of focus, of drive, I am excited ALL THE TIME!!! Things I thought I could never dispose of so easily, are all gone, RESOLVED for GOOD! I am happy to be at work, and genuinely feel good about life as a whole. Just yesterday, I told you about my driving issues, after the session, I was excited to get on the road & just DRIVE!  While driving, I was calm, cautious & even chatted with my passenger, where before, I would be frozen, tensed up & silent, constantly thinking about being in another accident, but not anymore!!!
I even smiled while I was driving! In fact, I’m smiling all the time!!!

You have helped me set attainable goals & objectives for 2009. I now know that absolutely ANYTHING is possible, I just have to do it! With the right mindset, only positive things can be achieved. I’ve even started a new relationship with someone supportive of my hobbies, goals & objectives. And I can say with confidence that 2009 will be a spectacular year!

Thanks, Peter, from the bottom of my heart!!!

Janine Cupido

Traditional Coaching Model

My Life Coaching Program - The Ultimate Personal Breakthrough

Life Coaching has never been this effective. My Life Coaching Program is 100% scientific and practical. I guarantee my results and have a 100% track record. Yet my Life Coaching Program is not for everyone. I choose my clients, not because of arrogance, but because I want clients that are as committed to getting the results as I am. I am merely the facilitator of your transformation. However, you are the one that creates change within yourself. Without your full committment to the coaching process we will not get the desired results and that is not an option that exists in my world.

 

I am aware that I making bold claims and making heavy demands right from the onset. I do this only because I care and because I truly want what is best for you you.

As your life coach I commit to:

  1. Respect your model of the world regardless of my beliefs.
  2. Focus on the results that you want, not the results that anyone else thinks you should have
  3. Only assist in objectives that increase your choice (We will discuss this in depth at the info session)
  4. Only assist in objectives that are ecological. In other words, I will only assist with objectives that are good for you and your environment.

My program is essentially made up of 4 steps

1. Education of Self

Racing drivers can control their vehicles much better the average person, right? That is because they have a much better understanding of the vehicles real capabilities and limitations . They also have a greater understanding of how to instruct a vehicle and are therefore able to get significantly more performance from a vehicle. You will learn how your internal model of communication works. In other words, you will learn why you perceive the world the way you do. I will also teach you how to give yourself proper instruction resulting in greater performance.

2. Dealing with the Past

The reality is that no matter how aware you are of your potential and your abilities or how well you can instruct yourself, your past will cause you to feel like those choices are not real options. If you are going to empowered to always be at choice then your past needs to lose its foothold over you. What exactly does this mean?

We all have baggage that we have accumulated until now. In other words, we all have anger, sadness, fear, guilt and hurt that we carry with us every day from the past. You either gain wisdom or baggage from any event that has happened. The part of my life coaching program is really precious, as you will learn to free yourself from your baggage

3. Now Strategies

Having dealt with the past you are now equipped to look at the now through new eyes. Only now can you make the necessary changes in your mind that will cause your behavior, and therefore your results, to change. This step of the process is about re allingning your inner world to congruently work as one, supportung your dreams and goals.

  4 Steps to Life Coaching Program

4. Creating the Future

Facing the future, baggage free and with the necessary tools, is now very exciting. We will place your new goals into your future using techniques that will make these goals so compelling that everything you do from then onwards would be yet another step closer to achieving your dreams. Have you ever set goals and not achieved them. You will learn why, but more importantly you will learn how to set goals so that you will achieve them.

 

This program is unbelievable, the work that Peter has done with me has had amazing results and has unlocked potential in me that I never believed existed.  Before the sessions, I was quite down on myself, and felt like I didn’t really know which way was forward, but by a few simple discussions, and some positive re-enforcement from Peter, I now feel like nothing can stop me on my way to the top.  Peter has also done some work with my oldest son, and the results have been exactly the same, his entire demeanour has changed, he is more positive, more action oriented, and ready to take on the world, and win.  The cost and time is a small sacrifice for the changes you can make in yourself with just a little bit of assistance, re-assurance and some pointers on how to look at and handle everything that life has to throw at you.  I was a bit sceptical before I started working with Peter, but decided that it couldn’t hurt to try, and see what came of it.  Deciding to go ahead with the Life Coaching program has to be one of the best decisions I have ever made, and has certainly opened new doors for me, and given me the attitude to deal with anything that comes my way.

Sharon Re

 

Unlike most coaching programs out there, my program is designed to eliminate the need for my services as quickly as possible. I guarantee results and am totally focused on empowering you to take charge of your life without needing to depend on me in any way moving forward. My Life Coaching Program is very simple. I facilitate instant change equipping you to go create the life you want.

Click here to find out how to get onto my life coaching program - THE ULTIMATE PERSONAL BREAKTHROUGH

 
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